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Forgiveness

January 22, 2013

john-galliano-pictureTwo years ago, acclaimed fashion designer John Galliano saw his world crumble. The designer was dismissed from his roles as the head designer of Christian Dior, as well as his own eponymous label, after a series of alcohol fueled, anti-sematic rants in a Paris café.

Not only did his employers turn against him, but retailers refused to carry his merchandise, and celebrities who previously coveted his clothing spoke of him with disdain. He also lost his “Chevalier of the Legion of Honor”, a highly prestigious title in France.

The designer has been off the radar for last two years, presumably working on his sobriety.

This week, in a controversial move, the disgraced designer begins a three week, “designer in residency” with Oscar de la Renta.

Mr. de la Renta is quoted as saying, “ John has worked hard on his recovery, and I am happy to give him the opportunity to reimmerse himself in the world of fashion and reacclimate in an environment where he has been so creative.”

Galliano has also issued a statement stating. “ I am an alcoholic. I have been in recovery for the last 2 years. Several years prior to my sobriety, I descended into the madness of the disease. I said and did things, which hurt others, especially members of the Jewish community. I have expressed my sorrow privately and publicly for the pain which I caused, and I continue to do so. I remain committed to making amends to those I hurt.”

People make mistakes, and certainly Mr. Galliano made his share of them. His behavior was beyond contempt. Yet, he is an immense talent, who deserves a chance to redeem his poor behavior and find his way in the world again.

Forgiveness is a powerful thing, and Mr. de la Renta is making a grand and generous gesture to a peer and competitor.

The Anti-Defamation League also approves of Mr. de la Renta’s extraordinary move. The League’s national director told WWD,“ We believe that individuals can change their hearts and minds as long as they demonstrate true contrition. Mr. Galliano has worked arduously in changing his worldview and dedicated a significant amount of time to researching, reading and learning about the evils of anti-Semitism and bigotry. Along his journey to recovery, he met with us on numerous occasions. He has accepted full responsibility for his previous remarks, and understands that hurtful comments have no place in our society.”

We applaud Oscar de la Renta for opening his heart and his studio to a fellow designer. Mr. de la Renta’s actions speak louder than the hurtful words Mr. Galliano spoke to trigger his epic fall from grace. We hope that he is recovered and can use this incredible opportunity to rebuild his life, and his career. Talent such as his should not be wasted.
We wish them both the best.

Old Year’s Resolution

December 22, 2009

As 2009 winds down, many people are starting to think about making New Year’s resolutions. This year, we decided to live in the moment, and make “Old Year’s Resolutions”; things we want to do before the year is over.  On that note, we would like to share a story from within a story, excerpted from one of our favorite children’s books entitledZen Shorts” by Jon J. Muth. In this book, Stillwater the panda shares his ancient Chinese tales with 3 young siblings he has befriended. Each one is thought provoking and inspirational.

A Heavy Load

Two traveling monks reached a town where there was a young woman waiting to step out of her sedan chair. The rains had made deep puddles and she couldn’t step across without spoiling her silken robes. She stood there, looking very cross and impatient. She was scolding her attendants. They had nowhere to place the packages they held for her, so they couldn’t help her across the puddle.

The younger monk noticed the woman, said nothing and walked by. The older monk quickly picked her up and put her on his back, transported her across the water, and put her down on the other side. She didn’t thank the older monk; she just shoved him out of the way and departed.

As they continued on their way, the young monk was brooding and preoccupied. After several hours, unable to hold his silence, he spoke out. “That woman back there was very selfish and rude, but you picked her up on your back and carried her! Then she didn’t even thank you!”

“I set the woman down hours ago” the older monk replied. “Why are you still carrying her?”

Sometimes people hurt us so deeply, that is hard to forgive and forget.  As this year comes to a close, we are committed to finally putting down the burden of carrying that grief with us. We are looking forward to entering the next decade, freer and lighter, as we put the past behind us, and embark on a positive future.
Won’t you join us?

Happy Old Year!

indigo jones


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