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Mercury in Retrograde Woes

August 29, 2010

We seem to be having an appliance meltdown at our house. Sure, the little things always go; the clock radio ceased to go off at the required time, the handle fell off the garlic press, and we have broken more glasses than we currently own. But this week, the big things went too.

First it was the refrigerator. The repairman was dispatched and gave us a quote for $1200 to replace the compressor, and a suggestion to consider getting a new refrigerator.  A little on-line research and a few phone calls turned up some substantial sticker shock. A new basic model stainless steel Sub Zero refrigerator now costs $8000, plus tax. Say what? We explored other options and discovered that you can’t fit a Sears Kenmore peg in a Sub Zero hole.

Next, we booked Miele to come in and take a look at our very slow yet very hot clothes dryer.  Verdict pending.

I tried to call home to see how things were going and got a recording stating that the line was out of service. Apparently, the Verizon guy came to work on the cable T.V. service, and cut off the phone line in the process. Add cable and telephone to the growing list of problems.

Trying to see the last remaining glass on the shelf as “half full” I remarked that at least we were busy work-wise.  Just as Spencer finished a big job and booked 2 more, one of the studio computers went down. You know, the one that the digital camera runs off, of course. The Apple Genius declared it dead of natural causes (5 years is ancient in Macintosh terms) and steered him to the sales floor.

Fearful of the whole house falling down, forcing us to live in a Sub Zero refrigerator box on the street, I searched for the root of our problem.  It seems, that Mercury is in retrograde. Yikes!

For years I have heard people refer to Mercury being in retrograde as the root of life’s disruptions. But I was not aware that the planetary forces actually had an effect of appliance function.

This particular retrograde (the time in which Mercury appears to travel in reverse through the sky) is in Capricorn, the Earth sign, and as chance may have it, my astrological sign as well.  Mercury officially turned retrograde on August 20, and will not turn direct until September 12.

According to California Psychics, now is a terrible time to negotiate contracts, file a lawsuit, travel without a back-up plan, start a new job, or, you guessed it, buy or repair electronics!  In our case, short of living urban prairie style, we are going to need to do something about our appliance situation before a major planetary realignment.

They do however recommend reviewing the past and using this reverse energy to re-apply for a job, rewrite your resume, re-contact people from the past, and do research.

Currently, we have restored cable, telephone and refrigerator service.  We replaced our clock with another one in the house with a reliable alarm, and are patiently awaiting the dryer repairman next week.  With only 2 more weeks of Mercury in retrograde to go, we are hunkering down and toughing it out. Until the next one that is, expected November 24.

Early Childhood Development

August 18, 2010

According to a study by Cincinnati Children’s Hospital, the number of 7-year-old Caucasian girls developing breasts has doubled since 2004, putting them in line with African American girls,who develop at a faster rate.

What’s up with that?!! This gives new meaning to the subject of  ”early childhood development”.

Right on the heels of last week’s articles about the rise of 9 to 12 year olds getting waxing services, this is reason to be concerned.

Researchers are attributing this early puberty to obesity. Estrogen is stored in fat, and the excess estrogen is triggering children to develop at a much faster rate.

Other possible explanations include environmental exposures to chemicals, including pesticides and BPA, commonly found in plastics, as well as some personal care items.

We have spoken at length on these pages about the risks of plastic bottles, and children’s use of cosmetics at an early age.  It begins with early pubescence (7 year olds are just entering 2nd grade this year people!) and the future even more complex risks are still as yet unknown.

Eating organic and hormone free foods, and laying off the plastic bottles could be a step in the right direction.

photo: Glasshouse Images

Summer Streets

August 17, 2010

Yet another reason to love New York….Summer Streets!

For 3 consecutive Saturdays in August, Park Avenue is closed to traffic from 7a.m. to 1 p.m. from the Brooklyn Bridge all the way up to the 72nd Street entrance to Central Park. There are breathtaking moments, such as cruising up the ramp above Grand Central Station and through the Met Life Building.; spinning around the spectacular Central Park loop that leads up to Harlem, and riding (huffing and puffing most likely) over the Brooklyn Bridge.

If you are a cycler, a blader, a runner or just a casual stroller, this is an incredible way to enjoy New York City!

For those who can’t take the heat, the mayor has converted large dumpsters into public pools along the way.

Next Saturday, August 21st is the last Summer Streets event for the year, so get up, get out and enjoy our beautiful city traffic free.

My How Time Flies!

July 20, 2010

I just realized that Indigo Jones had a birthday and I missed it!!!  Last year, on July 14,2009, we typed our first post. It’s all been a great experiment since then…writing about whatever moved us, and trying to keep up with all of you while life threw us curve balls. So, one year , 126 posts and 102 comments later, here we are.

Thanks for sharing this journey with us. Stay tuned for more food, fashion, family,fitness and  life.  It’s been a great year!

photo: Glasshouse Images

Energize Me!

July 7, 2010

I have written about Jen and her wonderful organization “Cycle for Survival” several times on this blog.  Recently, she has been honored as one of the finalists in the “Energizer Hall of Fame”. A six time survivor of a rare form of cancer, Jen is currently waging yet another battle. Throughout her fight she has shown immense courage and fortitude that puts that Energizer Bunny to shame! Please take a moment to cast your vote for Jen. The winner gets a donation to the charity of their choice.

Please click on the link to view a video from Jen and cast your vote! Energizer Hall of Fame.

Cereal Killers

June 26, 2010

Kellogg has issued a recall of cereals citing a strange odor and flavor coming from the package liner. The cereals affected are Corn Pops, Froot Loops, Honey Smacks and Apple Jacks, with the letters KN in the use by date.

Of the many complaints that Kellogg received, there were only 5 people who felt ill after eating the cereal. The company does not think there is any major health risk involved, but they are accepting returns on the boxes.

Happy Memorial Day!

June 1, 2010

Today seems a very fitting time to share some excerpts from the very moving speech President Obama gave last weekend at Will’s graduation from the United States Military Academy at West Point.

“Now even as we fight the wars in front of us, we also have to see the horizon beyond these wars – because unlike a terrorist whose goal is to destroy, our future will be defined by what we build. We have to see that horizon, and to get there we must pursue a strategy of national renewal and global leadership. We have to build the sources of America’s strength and influence, and shape a world that’s more peaceful and more prosperous.

Time and again, Americans have risen to meet and to shape moments of change. This is one of those moments – an era of economic transformation and individual empowerment; of ancient hatreds and new dangers; of emerging powers and new global challenges. And we’re going to need all of you to help meet these challenges. You’ve answered the call. You, and all who wear America’s uniform, remain the cornerstone of our national defense, the anchor of global security. And through a period when too many of our institutions have acted irresponsibly, the American military has set a standard of service and sacrifice that is as great as any in this nation’s history.

Now the rest of us – the rest of us must do our part. And to do so, we must first recognize that our strength and influence abroad begins with steps we take at home. We must educate our children to compete in an age where knowledge is capital, and the marketplace is global. We must develop clean energy that can power new industry and unbound us from foreign oil and preserve our planet. We have to pursue science and research that unlocks wonders as unforeseen to us today as the microchip and the surface of the moon were a century ago.

Simply put, American innovation must be the foundation of American power – because at no time in human history has a nation of diminished economic vitality maintained its military and political primacy. And so that means that the civilians among us, as parents and community leaders, elected officials, business leaders, we have a role to play. We cannot leave it to those in uniform to defend this country – we have to make sure that America is building on its strengths.

But this nation was founded upon a different notion. We believe, “that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. And that truth has bound us together, a nation populated by people from around the globe, enduring hardship and achieving greatness as one people. And that belief is as true today as it was 200 years ago. It is a belief that has been claimed by people of every race and religion in every region of the world. Can anybody doubt that this belief will be any less true – any less powerful – two years, two decades, or even two centuries from now?

And we will commit ourselves to forever pursuing a more perfect union. Together with our friends and allies, America will always seek a world that extends these rights so that when an individual is being silenced, we aim to be her voice. Where ideas are suppressed, we provide space for open debate. Where democratic institutions take hold, we add a wind at their back. When humanitarian disaster strikes, we extend a hand. Where human dignity is denied, America opposes poverty and is a source of opportunity. That is who we are. That is what we do.

We do so with no illusions. We understand change doesn’t come quick. We understand that neither America nor any nation can dictate every outcome beyond its borders. We know that a world of mortal men and women will never be rid of oppression or evil. What we can do, what we must do, is work and reach and fight for the world that we seek – all of us, those in uniform and those who are not. “

Happy Memorial Day.

Graduation Weekend

May 21, 2010

We are heading upstate to my nephew’s graduation from the United States Military Academy at West Point.  A bittersweet event, as it culminates 4 years of his being close to our home. We have shared some great times with him and his friends, who became regulars are our dinner table (and laundry room!). After this he is off to Oklahoma, Colorado Springs and most likely, Afghanistan.

We are looking forward to President Obama’s  commencement speech; the very conservative Republican extended family’s imminent criticism of it, not so much. Should be very interesting.

I promise a full report when I return!

Pretty Babies

May 15, 2010

Last week, a friend posted a query on Facebook: “ My 5th grader is mad at me because I won’t let her wear eyeliner. Am I wrong?”

At least 10 people responded immediately telling her that she was indeed, not wrong at all.  A few suggested letting her daughter wear blush, lip-gloss and a light coat of mascara as a compromise.

Today, as I was reading the New York Times ‘Thursday Styles” section, I stumbled upon an article discussing the same topic.

According to NPD Group, a consumer research company, the use of cosmetics in tween girls is up this year. Statistically, 18% of all 8-12 year olds are wearing mascara, 15% are wearing eyeliner, and 15 % are wearing lipstick.

Over 66% of the girls polled credited a family member or adult family friend with helping them acquire and apply their makeup.

While adult makeup sales are down, the use of tween and teen makeup is growing steadily.  As we question the motivation of our little Lolitas trying to appear older, it is important to note the actual health risks of cosmetic use in children.

In a recent study done by the Mount Sinai School of Medicine, girls younger than age 10 with early onset of puberty had a high incidence of endocrine disruptors found in some nail polishes and cosmetics. There is also concern over skin damage caused by the chemicals in makeup, and the potential allergic reactions suffered by the overly sensitive skin of a child.

Some companies, such as Neutrogena, use different formulations in products marketed to a younger clientele, although they declined to share their proprietary technology in the article.

As I watch my own daughter teeter on the cusp of being a baby and an adolescent simultaneously, I struggle with keeping her innocence and letting her be her own person. I have found that my instincts are my best guide.  Knowing that there are potential health risks involved will help me make an informed decision when the situation arises.

Street Jam 2010

May 2, 2010

Today marked the 20th anniversary of the Church Street Music School in New York City. To celebrate, they hosted an outdoor guitar jam, featuring Mike D of the Beasty Boys, and Andrew W.K.

Dozens of young guitarists, as well as local adults rocked out in an alleyway on Warren Street in Tribeca, to such classics as Smoke On The Water, Yellow Submarine and Jason Mraz’s hit I’m Yours.

The event is an offshoot of the Tribeca Family Festival, which is being held in conjunction with the Tribeca Film Festival.

video footage :Spencer Jones


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